only one way

“There is only one way of loving people and that is to love them as they are.

And this is the beauty: that when you love them as they are, they change. Not according to you – they change according to their own reality. When you love them, they are transformed. They become new, they attain new heights of being. But that happens in their being, and it happens according to their nature.

Help people to be natural, help people to be free, help people to be themselves, and never try to force anybody, to pull and push and manipulate.

Those are the ways of the ego.”